I don't think these are pitfalls, they are just a materialist's viewpoint of this beautiful world. Bad things that happen to you are not an accident, either, and they help you heal or learn. Yes, a perceived 'good' person might still attract 'bad' things into their lives. I have written whole posts about this. I don't think you'll understand, though.

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