This is all 100% what happened to me, and your self esteem must be in such a low, belittled place by now that it seems really hard to leave, but trust me you need to get out. GET OUT NOW. It will be hard but eventually you’ll be glad and you’ll have a new, better life. My husband is gone and we haven’t heard from him in many months, yes these guys really want nothing to do with family responsibility.

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